| Posted by: Deolu on September 20, 2013 |
Celsus, who works with Kelina Hospital, Abuja, gave the advice in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN).
He said that it was normal for people that abstained from s*x for a long time to experience erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation..
He described premature ejaculation as the inability of a man to withhold ejaculation until he was ready to do so.
Celsus said that ejaculation was supposed to be a reflex action not strictly under willful control.
“If a man has abstained from s*x for a very long time, he has a very high tendency to release early when he tries to have s*xual intercourse.
“There is really nothing wrong with this. I try my best to discourage men from labeling themselves as having premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction when they see me.
“ I do not know why women who have climax too early are not labelled and why women who take so much time to reach climax are also not labelled?” he queried.
According to him, men believed that they were better off when they could have prolonged erection every time they had s*xual intercourse.
“This makes them to go from one hospital, one laboratory, to another, doing tests. They do not accept what a professional urologist tells them.
“They want to have erection that lasts 30 minutes or one hour, this is very abnormal.”
The doctor said some of the men ended up taking medications that would eventually cause them priapism.
Priapism is a potentially painful medical condition, in which the erect man-hood does not return to its flaccid state, despite the absence of both physical and psychological stimulation, within four hours.
“Priapism is a purposeless, persistent, painful erection unrelated to s*xual desire, which tends to ultimately cause complete loss of erection in the future if it is not quickly treated surgically.
“What is important when it comes to s*xual performance is technique, not the length of the man-hood or how long the erection lasted, ’’ the urologist said.
He said one good climax would be enough for a day for most women, adding that failure to help a partner to reach climax could not be compensated by prolonged erection.
Celsus said the remedy for premature ejaculation was regular and frequent s*xual intercourse.
He advised that when a man was too tired or unexcited, the woman should make the effort to turn him on.
“This way, erection will last longer.
“If the woman makes no effort until her husband is excited and can no longer hold it, the level of excitement will be too much for the erection to last long.
“Worse still is when the woman becomes hostile and rejects advances from her husband after an episode of premature ejaculation.
“The man becomes afraid to go near her. When tension builds up in the man and he can no longer hold himself, he makes a lot of effort.
“As the woman refuses, he pushes even harder until he becomes extremely excited. At this point, the erection will not last long at all. He will release early.”
Celsus advised the men experiencing such a condition to use condoms, saying that if they were supersensitive, the condom could reduce sensation and prolong their erection.
According to him, if all efforts fail, they should see a urologist as there are medications that can help genuine cases.
“The truth is that men have unfounded fears and more than half of the cases that see the urologist have no premature ejaculation at all.
“All they need is counselling along with their wives and both parties could have satisfactory s*xual experience thereafter.”
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